Brenda Biya, the daughter of Cameroon’s long-serving President Paul Biya, has caused quite a stir on social media with a series of posts expressing her affection for her female partner, Layyons Valença. Amidst the legal restrictions and discrimination faced by LGBTQ+ individuals in Cameroon, this situation has emerged, raising questions on whether the laws will be changed to favour her or simply ignored.
Brenda, who has recently embraced a new artistic venture, shared a series of candid messages on Instagram. Her words conveyed a blend of determination and exasperation, addressing both her loyal followers and critics. She showered Valença with affection while also expressing her concern about the constant media attention and the unfair criticism she faces for being true to herself.
One particularly enthusiastic post exclaims: “We’re making a huge impact on the internet!” If you are not satisfied with what you are seeing, please consider unfollowing. I have strong feelings for you and I want everyone to be aware of it. Biya directly addresses her critics, implying that they should simply disengage if they have any objections to her relationship.
Shifting Positions
In 2022, Brenda Biya publicly identified as bisexual, an announcement that already stirred considerable controversy. In January this year, she took to social media again to state categorically that she was not a lesbian. However, her recent declaration of her relationship with Valença marks a significant escalation in her challenge to the status quo. She acknowledges the controversy her statements and actions generate, stating, “Damned if I do damned if I don’t.. Pourquoi je monopolise tout les blogs / médias Camerounais? Find someone else to talk about. It’s getting old.”
Her defiance is not just about personal love but also about a broader statement against the rigid, and often violent, societal norms. “Your considered controversial in Cameroon because they’re so stuck in their ways. Funny thing is they call you names when you’re just being authentic,” she wrote, highlighting the deep-rooted resistance to change and acceptance in Cameroonian society.
Brenda’s relationship with Valença is not just a personal affair; it is a public act of resistance. By living her truth openly, she is challenging a nation that remains staunchly opposed to LGBTQIA+ rights. Her message is clear: “Keep pushing the barriers, never stop being you and never let the hate eat at you. I said what I said!”
Despite the potential risks, Brenda Biya is using her platform to advocate for change, a sentiment she encapsulated when responding to a follower’s question about Cameroon’s intolerance. “I don’t condone h@te. I think the mentality should change but it will change once the people are ready.”
Different Strokes for Different Folks?
This act carries great significance. Brenda’s unique platform stems from her position as the president’s daughter. Her open acceptance of her sexuality confronts the deeply rooted homophobia in Cameroonian society and its legal system. Last year, a highly controversial incident took place that received widespread global criticism. Two transgender women, Shakiro and Patricia, were apprehended and subsequently given a five-year prison sentence on charges of “attempted homosexuality” solely because they were dressed in women’s attire. Their case shed light on the risks that LGBTQ+ individuals in Cameroon encounter.
Nevertheless, Biya’s remarks subtly allude to the challenges she encounters. She expresses annoyance with the constant attention from the media, wondering why she is always the centre of attention. There are legitimate concerns regarding the potential consequences of her actions, not only for herself but also for the LGBTQ+ community in Cameroon.
Although Brenda Biya expresses optimism for a future characterised by greater tolerance, she firmly states, “I do not support or endorse hate.” I believe that a shift in mentality is necessary, but it will only occur when individuals are truly prepared for it. However, it is important to note that this statement lacks specific plans or actions to bring about this change. It is uncertain whether her social media statements will lead to any concrete advancements for LGBTQ+ rights in Cameroon or any other rights for that matter.
Cameroon is known not only for its anti-LGBTQ+ stance but also as a country where all forms of human rights are suppressed. It is one of the highest jailer of journalists in sub-Saharan Africa.
